[育儿知识] 一百零一句表扬孩子的话(英文) 4页

[育儿知识]一百零一句表扬孩子的话（英文）我家小三才三岁，小小年纪就有口头禅，不管自己还是别人做了什么，他都要缀一句“GoodJob！”有一天，我和幼儿园的老师说起这事儿，老师笑着问我：“你平时怎么表扬他？”我想想好像自己说的就是“GoodJob！”这一句。老师说：“这就对了，孩子都是跟外界学的，无论是行为还是语言。这句话一定是被你用了无数次以后，在他心里被强化成了最有力量的表扬话。”老师建议我以后试试其它表扬鼓励孩子的话，淡化这句“Ｇｏｏｄ　Ｊｏｂ”的作用。原来是我这当妈的语言单调造成了孩子的毛病。下一次见到她，她拿出一张纸递给我说：“这个或许对你有帮助。”接过来一看，上面打印的是：101种表扬孩子的话（101waystopraisea child）我看了之后大受启发，把它打出来和朋友们分享。1.Way-to-go!2.You"respecial.3.You"reonyourway.4.Howsmart!5.GoodJob!6.Goodforyou!7.You"reawinner.8.Terrific!9.Greatdiscovery.10.Itrustyou.11.You"reexciting.12.You"resosweet.13.Youmakemylifecomplete.14.You"resoheavenly.15.Bravo!16.Super!17.Outstanding!18.Great!19.Wow!51.Good!52.Youmakemehappy.53.You"reincredible.54.You"reontarget.55.Lookinggood.56.Iknewyoucoulddoit.57.I"mproudofyou.58.Welldone!59.Marvelous!60.Exceptionalperformance.61.You"rearealtrooper.62.Youaresoresponsible.63.Whatagreatimagination.64.Youbelong.65.That"sright.66.Nowyou"vegotit!67.You"recatchingon.68.You"reontopofit.69.Nicework! 20.That"samazing!21.Hownice.22.That"sincredible!23.You"readorable.24.Dynamite!25.Beautifulwork.26.Remarkablejob.27.Nothingcanstopyounow.28.You"rebeautiful.29.You"reone-of-a-kind.30.You"resocreative.31.Greatwork!32.Fantasticjob!33.Phenomenal!34.Youaresoimportant.35.Youfigureditout.36.Hip!Hip!Hooray!37.Youdidthatverywell.38.Goodlearning!39.You"reagoodlistener.40.You"rearesomuchfun.41.You"recaring.70.Excellent!71.That"sremarkable.72.Beautiful!73.You"reprecious.74.Magnificent!75.Superwork!76.You"reagoodfriend.77.Youmeanalottome.78.That"sthebest.79.Givethemabighug.80.You"vediscoveredthesecret.81.You"respectacular.82.You"readarling.83.Ilikeyou.84.You"refantastic.85.Neat!86.That"sgoodmanners.87.Bingo!88.You"regrowingup.89.You"regettingbetter.90.Youbrightenmyday. 42.Youtriedveryhard.43.Wonderfulsharing.44.You"reatreasure.45.Awesome!46.You"rewonderful.47.You"reA-OK!48.Youmademyday.49.Thankyou50.Youhaveagreatsenseofhumor.91.That"sperfect.92.You"resuchajoy.93.You"resokissable.94.Youhaveawonderfulsmile.95.Youmakemefeelgood.96.Youworkhard.97.Goodthinking!98.Goodplanning!99.You"reagoodhelper.100.Ilikethewayyoudidthat.101.Say,"ILoveYou"–often我觉得这里面的有些话不仅仅用来表扬孩子，也不仅仅局限在英文上，把它翻成中文，分场合地点可以用在配偶、朋友、同事、上下级等所有和人打交道的时候，运用的恰当，一定比“挺好”“不错”“对”这样普普通通的字眼效果好，可以成为人际关系中绝佳的润滑剂